{"id":553,"date":"2020-04-09T17:56:37","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T15:56:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vlindereffecten.be\/?p=553"},"modified":"2020-04-09T20:52:20","modified_gmt":"2020-04-09T18:52:20","slug":"de-simpelste-trucs-om-vrienden-te-verwerven-door-dale-carnegie-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vlindereffecten.be\/en\/de-simpelste-trucs-om-vrienden-te-verwerven-door-dale-carnegie-2\/","title":{"rendered":"De simpelste trucs om vrienden te verwerven (Dale Carnegie)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Net zoals Tante Kaat\u2019s goede tips is Dale Carnegies boek een klassieker, die absoluut op mijn favorietenlijstje staat.&nbsp; Carnegie schreef al in 1936 \u201c<em>Zo maakt u vrienden en goede relaties, de grote kunst goed met mensen om te gaan<\/em>\u201d.&nbsp;&nbsp; Dit klinkt dan wel heel oubollig maar de inhoud is absoluut nog actueel.&nbsp; &nbsp;Veel boeken over communicatie zijn variaties op wat Carnegie al schreef in 1936. Wat Whitehead zei over filosofie: <em>&#8216;De filosofie van de laatste twee\u00ebneenhalf duizend jaar is niets dan een voetnoot bij Plato<\/em>, kan je ook zeggen over Carnegie en zijn rol voor communicatie (al kan ik nog wel wat klassiekers verzinnen J)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zijn boek bestaat uit vier delen: fundamentele technieken in de omgang met anderen, manieren om jezelf bemind te maken; manieren om anderen te overtuigen en hoe een goede leider te zijn.&nbsp;&nbsp; Hij legt deze simpele communicatietips uit aan de hand van talloze voorbeelden van beroemde mensen uit de geschiedenis en dat maakt het boek ook zo leuk om te lezen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En terwijl ik deze tekst schrijf, besef ik dat ik alweer een tijdje een van zijn basistips heb verwaarloosd: wanneer was ik nu weer echt ge\u00efnteresseerd in anderen? &nbsp;&nbsp;Of wanneer vroeg ik iemand hoe het ermee was \u00e9n luisterde ik ook echt ge\u00efnteresseerd naar het antwoord?&nbsp; Nochtans is dat de truc de belangstelling van mensen te verwerven of in de woorden van Carnegie: <em>\u201cTo be interesting, be interested.\u201d&nbsp; <\/em>Dat verzon hij overigens niet zelf, op blz 95 zegt hij dat de Romeinse dichter Publilius Syrus al opmerkte op dat wij belang stellen in anderen als zij belang stellen in ons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ik ga de volgende dagen eens terug experimenteren met het schenken van aandacht, zien wat er gebeurt\u2026 En wie nog meer tips wil, het boek ik in pdf gewoon op internet te vinden: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/erudition.mohit.tripod.com\/_Influence_People.pdf\">http:\/\/erudition.mohit.tripod.com\/_Influence_People.pdf<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Net zoals Tante Kaat\u2019s goede tips is Dale Carnegies boek een klassieker, die absoluut op mijn favorietenlijstje staat.&nbsp; Carnegie schreef al in 1936 \u201cZo maakt u vrienden en goede relaties, de grote kunst goed met mensen om te gaan\u201d.&nbsp;&nbsp; Dit klinkt dan wel heel oubollig maar de inhoud is absoluut nog actueel.&nbsp; &nbsp;Veel boeken over [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-geen-categorie","clear"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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